Family tramping trips can be fun, and fraught. Sure, they are all about bonding and building resilience and introducing children to the country’s beautiful backcountry. But children also get tired, they get blisters, and bee stings. It’s worth thinking about what you really want to achieve on a trip. And to make sure your child’s gear is the right fit.
Yes, there are families that achieve impressive trips, like Te Araroa. And then there is the rest of us.
One stifling hot January afternoon on the Abel Tasman Coast Track, somewhere between Marahau and Anchorage, I came across a young boy lying on the track. He was about four, very red-faced. His dad, a huge pack towering above his head, was pleading with him, and kind of lying.
“Come on, it’s not far now,” he said.
Further on was mum, waiting with slightly bigger brother. “Have you seen a little boy with his dad,” she asked anxiously. “Yes, the boy’s having a wee rest, they’re not far away.”
She then told me how relieved she was that she’d rejigged their trip plans only the night before. “We were going to walk the whole track, with some quite long days and I started to think about how the boys would cope, especially in this heat. We also want to enjoy our holiday.”
So she’d rebooked: two nights each at Anchorage and Bark Bay, a water taxi to Onetahuti, before walking the final bit to Totaranui. They’d also be swimming and exploring.
It sounded wonderful, I said, remembering my own family coastal walk a few years back. We swam lots but the girls did get hot and bothered, and blistered and there was a bee sting. Just one rest day, at any of those gorgeous campsites, would have been bliss. We’d also dragged a big old frame pack out of the cupboard for the teenager, as you do. It didn’t fit her well and she didn’t have a comfortable time. Sending the packs out by water taxi on the last day was a popular move. The girls grinned and chattered all the way from Anchorage to Marahau.
Later, they talked positively about ‘that time’ on the Abel Tasman. One of them has returned with her partner and yes, they stopped for two nights at beautiful Bark Bay.
Last-minute changes may not be possible today on heavily booked Great Walks. So plan ahead. Camping also allows more flexibility than huts.

